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California Animal Sheltering during COVID-19 Weekly Call - Shared screen with speaker view
Cynthia Delany
19:37
Old one - Dr. Death for a shelter vet.
Phillip Zimmerman
19:38
He is the world's worst shelter manager...EVER!
Melanie Sadek
19:44
We kidnap animals. We are killing animals. We are bad people.
Emily Wood
19:47
That I don't care - especially about my staff
Michelle - Santa Barbara County
19:48
You don’t care about the animals
Kelly Miott
19:49
we don't care
Kelly Miott
19:53
oooh jinx
Angela Yates
19:55
We don't care about the animals or the people
Jessica Wiebe
20:00
I don't care about staff
Dori Villalon
20:03
question my integrity or motivation
Brenda Barnette
20:05
Our vets kill the animals so they'll have less work
Jackie Rose
20:05
Were in this just for the money
Emily Wood
20:07
lazy
Stephanie Miller
20:08
We aren’t doing our jobs b/c we are moving away from impounding stray cats.
Renee Gutierrez
20:13
that I am a clueless Manager because I did not have the authorization to waive late dog license fees.
Barbie Laderman-Jones
20:14
That I'm too focused on minutae
Joy Smith
20:15
I was once called "An Annoying Old Hag" for preaching spay/neuter. I actually considered it a compliment, except the "old" part!
Melanie Sadek
20:15
Creating evil out of good
Cynthia Karsten
20:16
That we don't know what we're talking about
Brenda Barnette
20:19
You should resign
Michelle - Santa Barbara County
20:21
We have no idea what we’re doing
Melanie Sadek
20:31
What do we need to do to get you out.
Jennifer Hawkins
20:31
Dr.Death
Kelly Tracey
20:32
In it for the paycheck
Dori Villalon
20:46
someone once called me an 'odd duck' but I took that as a compliment.
Kate Hurley
20:47
Ive gotten Dr. Death too
Jessica Wiebe
20:50
You used to be one of us (line staff) where is your allegiance....
Amanda Newkirk
20:53
You only want us to leave kittens with their mother because you know they’ll die
Jackie Rose
20:53
worried about the animals under your care
Joy Smith
20:58
We're selling cats for a money
Jennifer Hawkins
21:41
Oh, yeah, they said we are killing animals so we can sell the bodies to the rendering plant--we get paid by the pound so we're (of course!) motivated to kill animals.
Andy, KSMP UC Davis
23:50
In case the link got lost way up there, here's the Openness to Discovery document: https://www.dropbox.com/s/qu3tpqfxer62edi/Openness-to-Discovery-Minus3Ways.pdf?dl=0
Becky Margiotta
32:08
Villain -6
Barbie Laderman-Jones
32:12
Hero at work, victim at home
Jessica Wiebe
32:33
Villain sometimes -5 and -6
Emily Wood
32:34
villian -2 (it's just *your* misperception)
Kate Hurley
32:40
hero -7
Jennifer Hawkins
32:41
Villain -4, -6
Becky Clement
33:00
Victim -6
Cynthia Delany
33:02
Hero -8
Phillip Zimmerman
33:10
Villain -5
Kate Hurley
33:10
Oh also hero-10
Javier Gutierrez
33:25
villain 5
Kelly Tracey
33:28
Victim -6
Jessica Wiebe
33:32
Hero -8
Renee Gutierrez
33:56
Villian -5
Heather Skogerson
34:00
villain 4
Esteban Rodriguez
34:26
Villain -1 Hero -3
Joy Smith
34:36
Villain -2, Hero -7
Leslie Sklena
34:43
hero -3 and/or villain -4
Cynthia Karsten
34:44
Hero -6 and -7...but also victim -7
Javier Gutierrez
34:47
hero 3
Jessica Wiebe
34:55
Hero -6 and -10...
Christine Teuscher
35:07
Hero -6
Barbie Laderman-Jones
35:50
Victim -2 and Hero -7 at home. Hero-8 at work
Barbie Laderman-Jones
39:22
The mediator
Jessica Wiebe
39:42
Westley (princess bride)
Barbie Laderman-Jones
39:55
Mom the mediator
Kate Hurley
39:58
My victim's name is the Wet Kitten
Jennifer Hawkins
40:00
Cinderella
Renee Gutierrez
40:08
Wonder Woman
Kathy Anderson
40:26
Befuddle Bear
Kate Hurley
41:07
My villain is the Tasmanian Devil
Kelly Tracey
41:08
The Fixer
Barbie Laderman-Jones
41:16
Barbie the Bitch
Barbie Laderman-Jones
41:22
that's the villian
Amanda Newkirk
41:22
Mandy the Right
Jessica Wiebe
41:31
Victim- Squidward
Phillip Zimmerman
41:33
My villian - Bitchy Phil
Annette Patton
41:48
Judge Judy is a good one.
Renee Gutierrez
42:00
Crazy cat woman
Stephanie Miller
42:08
Miss know it all
Jessica Wiebe
42:12
Villain- Maleficent
Joy Smith
42:14
Cat Bitch
Jessica Wiebe
42:46
staff call me Boss lady when pissed
Kelly Tracey
42:48
victim- Wimpy
Barbie Laderman-Jones
44:06
Victim: Potcake
Javier Gutierrez
44:26
victim Grumpy
Andy, KSMP UC Davis
45:24
Here's the Drama Triangle Shift doc: https://www.dropbox.com/s/o6butbg6rmsp2j9/drama-triangle-shift-ques-w-attribution.pdf?dl=0
Barbie Laderman-Jones
48:46
Can you summarize the instructions again?
Barbie Laderman-Jones
48:50
Here in the chat would be ok
Barbie Laderman-Jones
49:43
Got it, thanks
Mary @ Maddie's Fund
01:02:03
Great opportunity - got to meet one of my heroes, Tracy Mohr from Chico.
Annette Patton
01:03:10
Thanks Stacy! I wish we could have talked longer.
Stacy Kraus
01:04:15
Nice meeting you, Annette! Me too :)
Jessica Wiebe
01:05:18
Can you teach a class on how to set boundaries...LOL
Christine Teuscher
01:05:55
Good idea Jessica!
Michelle - Santa Barbara County
01:06:11
I’d sign up for that! :)
Cynthia Karsten
01:06:52
I'm going to hang these shift questions over my computer screen - gentle reminder:)
Melanie Sadek
01:07:06
me too!
Mary @ Maddie's Fund
01:07:23
Great idea!
Tracy Mohr
01:07:32
Sharing will all the staff. Might help with workplace drama!
Barbie Laderman-Jones
01:08:29
Thank you so much, this has been very helpful and informative!
Renee Gutierrez
01:08:34
This was amazing, thank you Becky
Joy Smith
01:08:35
oh my gosh - this has been FANTASTIC!! I want MORE!!!!
Mary @ Maddie's Fund
01:08:41
Thank you so much, Kate and Becky
Michelle - Santa Barbara County
01:08:49
Thank you SO much. This is incredibly helpful
Shelly Thompson, Maddie's Fund
01:08:55
This was really great - thank you!
Phillip Zimmerman
01:08:57
Thank you Becky, really enjoyed your presentation!
Kelly Miott
01:09:00
make sure if you are influencing from 3' away you are wearing a mask :)
Jessica Wiebe
01:09:02
Thank you Becky! So helpful
Becky Margiotta
01:09:16
You all are so lovely and doing such important work!!
Jonelle Lang
01:09:33
Great job!!
Heather Skogerson
01:09:45
Thank you so much! This is very helpful.
Melanie Sadek
01:10:56
Really love this. Thank you so much!!!
Dori Villalon
01:11:15
thank you!
Annette Patton
01:11:17
Nice job Becky!
Kelly Miott
01:12:02
https://votevotevote.us/
Brenda Barnette
01:12:09
Great meeting. Thanks Becky and Kate.
Melanie Sadek
01:12:51
Andy's husband created these?
Emily Wood
01:12:54
This is the content I come here for!